There are a lot of different questions you might ask your realtor when looking at properties, but having a LGBT realtor on hand means you can ask many questions about the legalities regarding same-sex couple homeownership and about the local culture. While searching online or talking to other people can give you an idea of how you might fit into your neighborhood, realtors often have information about schools, doctors, and other areas you may need to explore if you’re moving to a different city. Knowing what questions to ask your realtor is important.
Can we legally get married in this state?
If you’re moving to a different state, this is one of the first questions you may want to ask. Being married or entering into a recognized civil union provides you and your partner more options when it comes to owning real estate. It’s a very important question to ask since it can determine many things.
If same-sex marriage is currently illegal, you may want to ask where the state stands in the current court battles. As of September of 2014, there are a number of cases that could change the legality of marriage in several states.
How welcoming are the schools here?
LGBT couples with children or who may be thinking about adopting children will want to know how the school systems treat same-sex parents. Some may find that they’re better going with private schools if they can afford them, while others may learn that public schools are very accepting.
Does the state protect LGBT workers?
Some states have laws regarding discrimination, while others do not. In some areas, your boss may actually be legally allowed to fire you if he or she finds out you’re homosexual or transgender. Knowing about this beforehand can help you decide how out you want to be in the workplace. LGBT realtors will certainly know about this as it directly affects them.
Have hate crimes been committed in the area?
This is very important to know. If other gay and lesbian couples have had crimes committed against them in the area you’re considering moving to, you may want to look for a different neighborhood. This is especially true if you are an out and proud person—these are the people who are often targeted first. Your realtor may be able to direct you to a neighborhood where you’ll be able to be yourself without being afraid of being attacked.